Men ...

... I have been accused of having a 'predatory' approach to blokes!

However, having just started dating in the past six months, I've been lucky enough to meet a number of different men. And it's really good, cos I now know what I prefer in a man!

That sounds odd, but when you've been with someone for such a long time (had been with hubby for 11 years, although only wed for two before he disappeared) it's a bit like trying a box of chocolates and seeing which ones you prefer!!

I should do some wonderful analogy of the blokes and chocolates - but I can't think of anything! Although I guess the ones I prefer are like caramels, sweet, tasty, take their time and leave a pleasant taste. Although your jaw might ache.

So I spose the others are nuts! A quick fix, nice at the time, but leaving bits that stick around annoyingly.

Anyway, that was a very poor attempt there Para.

But, I think I prefer the more gentle, softly, softly approach that I've experienced with two blokes. And I'm not talking sex here!! I'm talking attitude! There's more of a respect for me as an individual. And that's good. I like that. The ones who want to drag me into bed and talk about having babies and living together make me feel a tad suspicious of their motives! They might be exciting - but you're left with a deep sense of unease, instead of feeling smiley inside!

Yup, definitely feeling blonde today.

Para xx